A letter - of love and pathos
  • S. S. Rajputana, ( written on board a ship)
    Marseilles 5 Oct 1928


    Darling – thank you for all you have done. If ever in my bearing
    your once tuned senses found any irritability or unkindness – be
    assured that in my heart there was place only for a great tenderness
    and a greater pain – a pain my love without hurt. When one has been
    as near to the reality of Life (which after all is Death) as I have
    been dearest, one only remembers the beautiful and tender moments
    and all the rest becomes a half veiled mist of unrealities. Try and
    remember me beloved as the flower you plucked and not the flower you
    tread upon.

    I have suffered much sweetheart because I have loved much. The
    measure of my agony has been in accord to the measure of my love.

    Darling I love you – I love you – and had I loved you just a little
    less I might have remained with you – only after one has created a
    very beautiful blossom one does not drag it through the mire. The
    higher you set your ideal the lower it falls.

    I have loved you my darling as it is given to few men to be loved. I
    only beseech you that the tragedy which commenced in love should
    also end with it.

    Darling Goodnight and Goodbye

    Ruttie

    I had written to you at Paris with the intention of posting the
    letter here – but I felt that I would rather write to you afresh
    from the fullness of my heart. R.


    >>>>>>>>>>>>

    Ruttie Petit Jinnah died on her 29th birthday. She was buried on
    February 22 in Khoja Isna Ashari Cemetery, Mazgaon, Bombay according
    to Muslim rites. Jinnah sat like a statue throughout the funeral but
    when asked to throw earth on the grave, he broke down and wept. That
    was the only time when Jinnah was found betraying some shadow of
    human weakness.
    >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
    dear friends,

    i am sorry at the outset to post this, but since we are discussing
    literature and history - thought we could do something nearer (
    dateline) but again forgotten......we talk of how much is there to
    know of the cholas, pallavas....but how much do we know of what
    happened during the last century....

    yesterday, a chance visit to a local singapore library ( was pleased
    to see divakar sir's two works - two copies of vicithracithan and
    one of tirumalai tirudan on the shelves ).....have already posted on
    one of my fav reads - Freedom at Midnight, right next to that book
    was a huge volume...The Jinnah of Pakisthan...( read the review here)
    http://www.desistore.com/jinnah.html) ... the mention of his name
    was headline couple of years back, but guess lot of us dont realise
    how little we know of him ......it got me to pick it up.

    Just as i was nosing around i found this letter - a poignant piece
    of emotion from his second wife ( his first marriage was more to
    make him mom to agree to send him to london and he left within 4
    days of getting married and by the time he returned his bride had
    passed away )....he married Ruttenbai "Ruttie" Petit ("The Flower of
    Bombay")24 years younger than him...and their marriage is often
    portrayed wrongly in most indian books.

    this letter ( you can search on the net and get the original
    manuscript) read it knowing that, the age difference, his single
    minded devotion to his cause and the fact that she died in February
    15, 1929...its
  • Thanks Vijay. A new perspective....

    This raises a question in me, which I have been thinking for a long
    time and again remembered when I read the first line 'S.S.Rajputana'.

    How on earth can one post letters while aboard a ship? Even came
    across letters written by Vivekananda aboard ships...is it that, they
    wrote the letter aboard the ship and posted in the next available
    port? (more logical and should be that way).

    The postal system really surprised me and sometimes I feel, it was
    much better than todays postal system. Any letters written those days
    fetched a reply within a weeks time.. meaning if I write a letter
    andpost it today, and if Iget a response by one week, a letter to
    reach from one place to another is just 3.5 days...today it takes
    atleast 2 days for a local post, forget a post to a far away place.

    Even Kalki's Alai osai has such scenes. The story starts with the post
    box, ofcourse. Given the speed of transportation those days, isnt it
    amazing...Mostly we can find instances (in stories, movies) where
    someone drops a letter saying I am leaving to tiruchy today, please
    pick me up at the station...and the letter reaches before the person
    reaches, though both start the journey on the same day...

    This is what I understood from the stories, movies and letters written
    by people in the olden days (say 50 to 100 years back).

    Am I getting something wrong? Can someone enlighten me?
  • > The postal system really surprised me and sometimes I feel, it was
    > much better than todays postal system. Any letters written those
    days
    > fetched a reply within a weeks time..

    Hi sathish

    a small piece of trivia when we are discussing sea mail
    the first airmail( a trademarked word now) was in 1793.thats if you
    dont count the 'pura vidu thoothu.'
    how you may ask when the plane came a century later.
    and who wrote it.
    it was written by george washington and carried on a baloon. the
    adresee.
    it was a letter adressed to the owner of the land where the baloon
    chose to land.

    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Airmails_of_the_United_States
    venketesh
  • Vijay,

    Thanks for the clue, i came to know about Royal Mail Service. Though I
    dont understand the intricacies, my question still remains.

    If one travels in a ship and writes a letter, the RMS ship which
    carries the mails - will it be traveling along side? If RMS can
    deliver letters to and from a ship, why not the passenge ship itself
    travel at that speed so that the person reaches at the same time as
    that of the letter?

    Same line of thought - if mails were sent through trains and the
    passenger also travels by train, how the letter reaches before the
    traveler?

    romba kozhaparena illa kozhambarena?

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